Trans Substantiation

You Should Probably Break Up

Love in Transition

Becoming Someone Else

Identity in the Wake of Transition

Sympathy for the Men’s Movement

A Trans Woman on the Men’s Movement, #NotAllMen, and Feminism

A Belated Apology

I made a mistake when I first came out as trans and started my transition about two and a half years ago. And, because of my…

On Being “Uber-Gay”

Trans Women and Sexual Orientation

A Letter To Anne Lawrence

Dear Anne,

A Letter to a Trans Woman at a Restaurant I Go To

An Ode, a Lament

Hi. Uhh… You don’t know me. But, I suppose that’s the point of this, right? We don’t know each other, and it seems impossible that we ever will. But then, I’m getting ahead of myself. Let me…

Queerness, Choice, and Assimilation

Why “Choice” Has Nothing to Do With Equal Rights

On Disclosure

I just had a lady at the conference I’m at stop me in the hallway and ask if I used to play basketball. Why? Because of my height…